Undesirable, unlovable, worthless, ugly, sinful, never good enough... What do all these things have in common? They are all LIES that were whispered in my ear for years by the Devil that I had wholeheartedly believed. I’ve grew up knowing that these are all lies and that my Father in heaven adores everything about me, but believing this truth was a totally different story.

I grew up singing along with Veggie Tales, chanting John 3:16, and saying my prayers before bed. I knew that Moses parted the red sea, Noah built an ark, Esther saved the Jews and Joseph had a really awesome coat. Most of my life these were just stories holding no truth or evidence to how powerful, loving and simply amazing the Lord is.

As I grew up I was able to put on a mask and be a “Super Christian” by day, and a girl with an empty and broken heart by night. It was almost like a superpower knowing exactly what to say in small groups, going to the right church events, posting the most inspirational bible verses, and knowing all the words to worship songs on Sunday. Nobody knew that behind closed doors there wasn’t a girl with a heart full of joy and laughter, but a girl who was drowning and desperately needed rescuing.

My junior year of high school I started battling with depression and feeling weaker than ever. I would go to school with a smile on my face each day, and come home feeling defeated. Crippling insecurities followed me everywhere I went, a feeling of worthlessness consumed me, and my heart was absolutely empty. I was diagnosed with a mood disorder and prescribed medication, which I thought would surely “fix” me. The medication helped lessen the constant sadness but the emptiness in my heart remained. I realized that I needed more. I needed my Father. I came to a breaking point where I knew that no amount of medication could “fix” me and that only my Father could heal, restore, and rescue me from the life I was living.

I finally took off my mask and exposed my weaknesses and struggles. It was amazing how freeing it felt to be a woman who was finally living for the Lord. I stopped focusing on saying the right things in small groups and started to listen, to not just memorize words to worship songs but understand them, and to not post inspirational bible verses on Facebook but onto my heart. I needed to learn who I was in The Lord, and fight the lies the enemy had fed me for so long. The Lord’s presence, guidance, and love became so evident in my life as I continually pursued a relationship with Him.

I am now a senior at the University of Kentucky, and looking back at both the trials and victories I’ve faced I see how God has always been by my side. I’ve gone through really low valleys and high mountains but I know that I was never alone, and that The Lord has always been fighting for me. He knows my every thought and intention, and sees all my failures and sins but loves me unconditionally. His love has healed me, given me comfort, strength, and peace. I let my problems and fears hold me back from glorifying Him and being the light that I was created to be for so long. I am now able to rest in His love, trust in His plans, and glorify Him in all that I do. My prayer is that through every season of your life that you passionately pursue The Lord and stand strong in your faith. You are saved, adored, and loved beyond measure.

“I trust in your unfailing love, I rejoice because you have rescued Me.” –Psalm 13:5

“I have made you, I will carry you, I will sustain you, and I will rescue you.” –Isaiah 46:4

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